Rokuyo Koyomi

Tomobiki 友引

tomo-biki — "pulling friends"

Lucky except at noon

Good for

  • Weddings
  • Giving gifts
  • Reunions

Best avoided

  • Funerals and wakes

Lucky hours

All day except around 11am – 1pm

Lunar 10/11

a Sun

10 days after the new moon · 20 days until the next new moon

It falls on a weekend, which makes it a popular choice for ceremonies.

The days around it

Tomobiki 友引

Read literally as "pulling a friend", it is favoured for weddings and gift-giving, where good fortune is shared. Funerals are avoided on Tomobiki for the same reason — the fear of pulling a friend along to the next world. Many Japanese crematoria still close on Tomobiki. Only the hours around midday are unlucky.

Taian dates after this